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Encountered by:
One of Jade's distant relative
Told by: Jade's grandma, who told Jade.
In the old days of the 50-60s era, many people were still very much
pan tang (taboo in malay), even for the modernised, cultured
peranakans. This incident happened way before I was born and when my
grandmother was still a young maiden. This was what she heard from a
relative.
Apparently, someone in our extended family had passed away and as
usual, there should be no celebrations of any sort for the next 1yr (
or was it 100 days? This I am unsure of) as a respect to the dead. No
festival celebrations, no weddings, etc... However, the
daughter-in-law of the deceased was a modern and practical woman. The
bak chang (Dumplings) festival was round the corner and she didn't
believed in the traditional taboos. A lot of disagreement and argument
carried on and in the end, the mother-in-law gave up hope of talking
the daughter-in-law round. Prior to a few days before the Dumpling
Festival, the daughter-in-law had bought the necessities needed to
make the bak changs and went about to prepare it. The main and most
important procedure is to have the seasoned rice cooked first before
it could be used to fill up the banana leaves. The daughter-in-law
washed and seasoned the rice as it should be and left it to cook in
the cooker pot. By right, a large pot of rice wouldn't take an hour to
be done but not in this case this time. A few more hours was waited
and still, the rice failed to cook. The cooker's fire was on and
burning endlessly, the water boiled but there was no sign of a single
grain cooked to even half the desired done-ness. The daughter-in-law
had put the rice to be cooked on the stove early in the morning and
dinner time, it was still uncooked! Thats an estimated 8 over hours at
least.
Now, this unexplainable, freaky incident had already struck fear in
the girl that her mother-in-law's words might very well be true. Her
husband rang his mother up and told her all about it. The old lady
came down that night, peered into the cooker pot, shook her head and
said:
" I told you right? You never want to listen to me. Now you have
angered your father-in-law. The fact that your rice never cooked is a
sign that he is very angry for your disrespect. Turn off the fire now.
Go to the altar, light some joss sticks and ask for forgiveness.
Tommorow I want you to accompany me to the temple and give further
prayers and offerings."
The daughter-in-law did as she was told and never ever anymore did she
became a skeptic in any traditional superstitions.
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